THE SECRET TO TRUE LOVE

Do you long for love?

The majority of us do. The intimate touch of another soul is the most powerful remedy for the all-too-human experience of aloneness. It might be the most engaging and enjoyable experience there is.

Why do we invest so much of our time and energy preventing intimacy by defending ourselves, being upset, critical, closed and judgmental in short, obstructing the experience that we most deeply desire?

DEFENDING THE EGO GETS IN THE WAY OF LOVE.

The response is that we are wired to constantly strengthen our restricted ego-based identity, our sense of who we are.

Ego is all about the self. It can and does experience need, and need is often simple to error for love.

These things aren't true love. True love and intimacy does not come from the ego. In order to experience the power of true love you have to get in touch with a various part of yourself the part that lies beyond ego.

THE REAL NATURE OF EGO.

This process is simpler when you comprehend the real nature of your ego-based identity: It doesn't actually exist.

It works as if its the most genuine thing about you, in actual truth your identity is only a perspective. Its kept alive entirely through the stories you inform yourself about life, others and yourself.

You could actually state that your ego is all talk a relentless monologue whose sole purpose is to strengthen your sense of self who you are and who you arent.

The majority of the time it goes something like this: Im much better than he is, uglier than she is, smarter than him, richer than her, worse than I must be. I can do this, I could never do this, I shouldnt have actually done that, they shouldnt be that way. Life is great, life is hard, hes right, shes incorrect, Im excellent, Im no great, its my fault, its their fault and on, and on, and on ...

Just as a whale recognizes its area through bouncing sound waves off close-by things, your ego identifies its own presence specifies itself-- by associating with individuals, ideas, and objects around it.

This process is continuous. Your identity should be continuously enhanced or you will rather literally lose the sense of who you are.

Thats why it can be so extremely threatening to have something or someone challenging your ego your beliefs about yourself, others or the world. Because the ego is really constructed out of these beliefs, perspectives and opinions, and you recognize the ego as you, when your beliefs are threatened it can feel much like a hazard to your really survival.

Quite just, the more you get to be best about things, the more genuine and solid you feel, and the more you have to be incorrect, the more threatened and decreased.

WHO ARE YOU TRULY?

This would be really problem if not for the fact that there is another part of you. This part your core essence, your genuine self has an intrinsic reality. Unlike your ego-based identity, its existence is not dependent upon outside circumstances or stories. And unlike your ego, its not threatened by someone elses success, or boosted by their failure. In reality, the opposite is true.

You could envision your ego/identity as like the surface area of the ocean; adjustable, susceptible, showing the sun, sky, and clouds, affected by every wind. Your core is the large, calm, still, deep water beneath. Those deep mystical waters burst with every kind of life and potential, but this life is unnoticeable from the surface area.

All transformation involves a process of seeing beneath the adjustable surface and connecting with the vast deep life-giving waters underneath. This procedure normally involves a level of pain as your identity is shaken out of its placid strong kind and made to expand and show a deeper level of reality.

But its worth it.

MY LITTLE WAKE-UP CALL

In 2015 I had an extremely normal experience from which I found out an uncommon lesson.

I was upstairs in my bedroom. My husband was late getting home and had actually stopped working to call me to let me understand. I wasnt actually stressed over him, however I still began to get a growing number of agitated by the truth that he hadnt gotten back when he stated he would.

The later he end up being, the angrier I grew. By the time I finally heard the door downstairs I was in a fury. (I understand that this doesn't reveal me in an especially favorable light however the reality is, thats precisely what happened.).

Like a balloon inflating with hot air, I prepared yourself to blow up at him.

Then something happened. In a minute of uncommon lucidity, I saw the future prior to my eyes. This is what it appeared like:.

Id persist till my other half (generally a pretty nice, easy-going person) confessed that his habits had been disrespectful and inconsiderate. When my anger was appropriately confirmed, Id forgive him and we might be good friends again but just after Id temporarily decreased his ego and inflated my own.

In that one lucid moment I understood that I could simply avoid the whole thing and go directly to being authentic and close. I saw a new possibility the possibility of refusing to be a servant to my own ego. To choose from a much deeper, calmer, more genuine part of myself.

I was overwhelmed with a sense of how massively stupid, predictable, automatic and absurd this whole pattern actually is.

What part of me saw that brand-new possibility? The part that peeked out through the surface area of my ego a little piece of my core.

EGO AND FUNCTION THE PHASES OF CREATION.

The world was created in three fundamental phases.

In Phase One, G-ds * Infinite all-pervasive important light was shining without limitation, filling all space. There was no place devoid of it, and for that reason nothing could exist aside from it. This is the stage of Infinity.

In Stage Two, G-d concealed His Boundless light in order to develop an obviously void in which other things (i.e., the universe, us) might exist. This concealment of the fact is Stage 2. This is the phase of the finite, where it ended up being possible for myriad animals and myriad perspectives, each with its own minimal borders and parameters, to exist.

Phase 3 is the combining of limitless and finite. It includes the improvement of the limited occupants of deep space. They must move from a state of being which hides their unlimited Divine Source to one which expresses and exposes it.

Like a game of hide and look for, G-d hides Himself in our limited world and waits for us to discover Him. Through this process He can enhance us with the best gift there is to exist as limited individuals and yet experience a really intimate relationship with our Developer.

Your ego is main to this process.

Like whatever in the physical world, your ego conceals the light of your essence. It is what allows you exist as a separate individual. By shutting out your intrinsic connection to.

G-d, your real nature and function, and the important oneness of the universe, your ego permits you to work as an individual. It allows you to have an individual perspective and a personal experience of life. Without it youd be merely a part of the whole.

This is just the beginning the process. The ultimate objective is that through your ego-- your role as a restricted person with a limited perspective, you will find your way back house.

HOW IT WORKS.

We have actually gotten in the Era of Improvement. This means that you can train your ego-based identity to acknowledge and align itself with the voice of your genuine self. The ego doesn't need to be defended or reduced it can be transformed. Your ego can be used on behalf of the purpose for which it was developed in the very first place to permit you to enhance your relationship with your Creator, reveal the potential of your essence, and satisfy your function here in the world.

Your protective ego-based reactions will most likely not go away in the meantime. Rather of being a slave to them, you can use them as the incentive to link to these much deeper parts of you. The minute you select to observe yourself instead of respond, to question your own defensive instincts, to genuinely see another individuals viewpoint, to admit where you may be wrong, to connect with something higher, to be generous with your time, cash or resources when you don't need to, you have actually made your ego your ally.

In fact, whenever you select use your body, your mind, your time, your relationships or your belongings to satisfy your authentic purpose-- to do something inherently excellent or G-dly-- those things, for that moment, are Holy. They have actually been utilized on behalf of the purpose of Production. You have developed a little light through which the worlds darkness and concealment will be transformed.

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