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The sensual massage goes beyond the physical touch and incorporates a number of elements in order for the receiver to fully relax and enjoy it. Since this form of massaging requires the receiver to fully surrender to his feelings and loosen up, setting up the proper surroundings is extremely important. More often than not, the receiver and the giver will be nude during the massage, therefore securing their privacy is crucial. If the massage is performed at home, then this is obviously not that difficult, but when performed at a studio, the room should be isolated from other areas and if possible soundproof as well in order to provide the necessary intimate atmosphere. Dim light and candles are also very appropriate since the bright and intense light could prevent the receiver from relaxing. Using aromatic and natural oils is usually necessary as their fresh fragrance stimulates the senses and helps build a sensual connection.

The sensual massages are also characterized by gentler and softer touch rather than pressing hard on the muscles in order to relieve pain or tension. Even though proper training is always desired, partners can learn how to perform sensual massage on each other as well. During the sessions, all body parts can be touched and the sensual massage differs from the traditional one since the erogenous zones are massaged as well. These include the breasts and the pubis for women and the genital area for men, but other body parts can also be touched and caressed. Even though an orgasm is a likely outcome and response, it is not the main purpose of the sessions - their power lies in the fact that a session can unlock suppressed emotions, and release blocked feelings and energy.

When it comes to the techniques used, they can range from the more common and known circle and fan strokes to stretching strokes, but as a rule, all of them are softer and gentler than when performing a traditional massage. Certain massage studios offer a four-hand sensual massage, which is performed by two givers and according to many is the ultimate experience as it confuses the senses to an extent that cannot be achieved by a two-hand massage. The sensual massage's benefits are well known and at times used for treating various sexual conditions since the massage can help men, women, and couples overcome certain issues and ultimately lead better and more fulfilling sex life.

Massage

Massaging is one of the most widely recognized therapies in the world and many people see it as a way of life instead of a luxury. It is widely used to compliment medicines in treating a variety of ailments, most related to stress and tension. Very often emotions become reserved and manifest themselves in the muscles, by massaging the muscles and releasing these reserved emotions both body and mind will benefit.

Many people see massaging as quite a time consuming practise however that really is not the case. A simple 10 or 15 minute hand or foot massage can be very stimulating due to the proximity of the reflexology points. There are many types of massage for example some techniques work on pressure points whilst others work on specific points to eliminate toxins. The benefits of massage are quite vast and include improved circulation, digestion and skin condition.

Essential Oils

Massaging is obviously 강남나비 all about touch and touch is an extremely important part of a healthy lifestyle. All too often we get caught up in our hectic lifestyles we overlook giving each other a hug or holding a hand, which can make us feel instantly better. We can combine this touch and massage with aroma and provide an ultimate feel good therapy. We are surrounded by thousands of different scents yet we are quite unaware of the power that scent can have on the brain. The same area of the brain which is stimulated by smell is also connected to the hormonal system and it is for this reason odours can comfort us, relive memories, warn us of danger and recreate experiences.

A Blend of the two

When massage is blended with aromatherapy, the scents of the essential oils assist greatly in relaxation and they help to rebalance the emotional tension which often leads to muscle stress. When blending these together, it is unlike a traditional massage as the process is slower. Time must be allowed for the oils to be absorbed by the body and this will depend on the physical state of the receiver (amount of fatty tissue).

Preparing the Perfect Massage

It is important to create the right atmosphere and if possible use a room which has soft light colours. It is also important for the room to be warm because very often during a massage the exposed muscles will become cold and contract, which is the opposite of what we want to achieve. The lighting should also be soft, candles make for a veryrelaxing atmosphere but can be quite hazardous, a dimmer switch for your lights are the best tool for creating the right atmosphere.