How To Discuss Drugs With Kids

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Don't feel anxious at the thought of this idea. I know this sounds far too young for many of us to discuss drugs with our kids. The fact is, you've probably already laid the groundwork for a discussion. For instance, when giving your child over-the-counter medication or an antibiotic, you have the opportunity to discuss the benefits and correct use of those drugs. This expresses how to use drugs in a responsible way. This is a time when your child is like a 'sponge' and listens to everything you say attentively and learns from your guidance.

Also, take advantage of 'teachable moments." For example, you see a billboard or a commercial on TV about drinking, using drugs or smoking. Now what? Go ahead and tell your child in a simple way about whatever drug it is and what it can do to a persons body. Kids like to hear things in this way at this age. Why not make it sound as 'gross' or 'yuckky' as possible? Paint a vivid picture in their minds about the ugly effects these chemicals can have. This can lead into a deeper 50 most popular women about other drugs and how they can cause potential harm if used improperly.

The tone of the discussion should always be calm and simple. Be specific about the effects of drugs: how they make a person feel sick, the risk of overdose, and long term damage drugs can cause. Do a little research if you aren't sure about this.

Age 8 - 12

As they get older and become more aware, you can open up the discussion and start asking them what they
think about drugs. Asking the questions in a non-judgmental and open-ended way will likely yield a more honest result from your child. Relax and listen.

Also, at this age kids are generally still willing to talk openly with us about touchy or sensitive subjects. By establishing a dialog at this stage, you'll develop an open door for when the kids get older. When they are older, they naturally share less about their thoughts and feelings so openly with us. (personally, my 9 year old already exhibits this characteristic and it worries me!)

Even if your question doesn't result in an immediate discussion, you've got the kids thinking about the issue as you've presented it and not in a way that they may be hearing about it from an outside source. Show them that you're willing to discuss the topic openly and that you're willing to listen and you've just taken out a small insurance policy on their future. Chances are when the issue presents itself in the future, it's you they will come and talk to.

Current events relating to drugs (such as the current steroid issue in sports) can be launches for casual conversations. Provide your child with the proper information on drugs during these times. Tell them all of the risks involved.