Remember that circumstances tend to be harsher, and you don't need it so severe that the tower is unattainable to rebuild (To put it differently, your marriage heading for imminent divorce). So dashing your partner to take a look at you inside a optimistic light will only make items even worse. Your partner is in a fragile state at this time, questioning whether or not the stuff you claimed, even prior to the affair, have been the reality.

David Packard was born on September 7, 1912…